الخميس، 22 مارس 2012

How to punish your child or staggered Important tips

Facing the mother a lot of positions that you need to punish her if he did something shameful, or even may need to punish her teenage son if you do not respect their authority and their decisions, bearing in mind that whatever the age of your child you that you may be determined not Tzhby your words if you have decided to punish the child.Here are some ideas and tips that will help you to think in different ways and appropriate to punish your child at different age levels:Newborn and up to two yearsA child in the period following the birth and even years to be curious by nature, so it is better to get up in that period to expel some purposes, such as TV on the way and some small jewelry and cleaning tools and medicines. If you see that your child will grasp the purpose may be put at risk, you should tell him that Tmanaah, or you do not expel him from the room or even distract by any other activity. If your child has behavior such as biting or hitting or throwing food, you should Explanation him that such behavior is unacceptable then Keep it sits alone after that for a minute or two minutes to calm down. You should note that multiplication is generally not an acceptable way to punish a child at any age with the situation in mind that the child until the age of two years in particular, will not understand the relationship between what he did wrong and corporal punishment. The mother also should make sure they behave ideally in front of her child, for example, do not ask your child to organize his toys while you're lying in your purposes Taatrkin around the house.The child from three to five yearsOnce your baby starts to grow, especially in the period between three and five years, it will absorb in the relationship between actions and consequences, and therefore In this period you need to know your child the rules of family and home. You should also tell your child what you expect from it and how you should act before the Valuation sentenced him to any specific action. For example, if your child is three years old and has for the first time painting on the wall of the living room using the colors you need to talk with him and tell him that such behavior is unacceptable and that if you do this again, it will help you to clean the walls and will not use colors for the rest of the day. After a few days if returned to your child's use of color on the wall once again remind him that a national colors used on paper only, and a national application of the consequences of what he has done it. Every mother should also be aware of the importance of positive praise for her child. If you are going to punish your child to sit alone, choose an a place away from anything that might distract him from thinking about what to do, for example, to punish the child Atqomy send it to his room if the room by the TV or PC. You should also tell your child the right thing, which must be followed not only Bmatpth Valuation on his wrongful.The child from six to eight yearsIf your child is in the stage between six and eight years, the punishment will be beneficial both to leave him sitting alone, or the consequences of telling him what to do and the type of application of the punishment. You've got to realize that you have to be fixed on your situation does not Ttrahay Atakztah decision to punish the child so as not to Tqlly of your authority in the view. Valuation must also not threatened by the child that you Staaqpinh imaginary sanctions, for example, do not tell him that if he closed the door, otherwise it will not be watching television in his life again. The child from 9 to 12 yearsChildren between 9 and 12-year-old begins to sense that he wants to rely on himself and wants to be more responsible, and therefore In this stage you may begin to teach your child how to deal with the consequences of errors committed by. For example, if the child does not have the performance of his homework and does not try to be a fun game to end it, but let her go to school without ending the imposition of duty or the textbook to face the consequences of what he did. Certainly, any mother will want to bear the consequences of her mistakes, but the best for the mother to leave her child and fails to bear the consequences of failure in some casesChildren thirteen and olderA child from the age of thirteen may be required of him and absorbed the consequences of bad behavior with the situation in mind that your teenager also needs some kind of limits and rules. You can put your baby to teenager some of the rules relating to visits of his friends to him and the date of his return home. You should note that your teenager is certainly Satzmr of Ek, but at the same time feel Bsulttk.

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